"I understand that we are only spending points on here,but they are points we get from things we put ... " (more) up for auction that have some meaning for us-if they didn't they would have been thrown out when we no longer needed them.You expected and received these same credits in return for the dress which as I told you was a birthday present for my daughter,and we never received it. It is people like you who are problems for Listia,and we will all be better off without you. If you were not planning to send the dress you auctioned,you should have been up front about it instead of exploiting whatever family problems you may have been having as an excuse to draw it out for over a month and then just disappearing before I got my refund. I tried to be sympathetic,but that is ridiculous! I didn't ask for a refund until after you ignored my messages for weeks and I realized you were no longer using the site. If I am guilty of anything it is falling for your scam and misplacing my trust in you and your story-telling.Lesson learned& good riddance! "