"It could've gotten lost in the mail which is understandable. Sh*t happens sometimes. I just wis ... " (more)h she would’ve been more *communicative*. I sent a polite message three weeks after the auction asking if she had sent it. She didn't reply even though her profile clearly said that she had logged on after I sent the message, which means she should’ve received it (everyone’s profile lists the last login date). She didn't reply until after I sent a 2nd message which was admittedly not very polite (message was "Hello??? You could at least tell me if you shipped it or not."). Yeah, not everyone “lives” on Listia. I don’t “live” on it either but I do reply to messages when I receive them and I expect replies when I send messages. Instead of asking for a refund I just decided to play nice and drop the issue. Then she repays me with a neutral feedback. How classy. "